In an authentic ḥadīth from Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim, the Prophet ﷺ tells us:

“Shaytan sends his minions out to create dissension. Each returns to report what they’ve done, to which Shaytan responds, ‘You have done nothing.’

One says, ‘I did not spare so-and-so until I sowed discord between husband and wife.’
And Shaytan says, ‘You have done well,’ and embraces him.”

Nothing makes Shaytan happier than knowing your home is in turmoil.

But you’re not alone.

Yusuf (AS) and his brothers.
Ibrahim (AS) and his father.
Nuh (AS) and his son.
Lut (AS) and his wife.
Aasiyah (AS) and her husband.
Even Muhammad ﷺ and his uncles.

The best families can come from the worst family drama.

Allah ﷻ describes our partnerships — the foundations of our families — as peace and comfort, filled with Love and Mercy (30:21).

Would we describe our homes that way today?
And if not — how do we get back to that standard?

Tip: The Gottman Institute calls it the “magic ratio.” For every 1 negative interaction during conflict, a healthy, lasting relationship has at least 5 positive ones.

So if you can’t cut the drama this week — repair the connection instead. Aim to 5x the moments of kindness, laughter, and love.

Want to learn how to heal your relationships — or protect your future marriage from old wounds?

Join us this Friday for a free class with Ihsan Coaching. RSVP required.

In your service,

Br. Zubair & the One Ummah Project Team